UNVEILING THE MYSTERY OF SEX

'Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.' - Matthew 19 vs 6

Hello, so many people really don't know what they are doing when they have sex. For some, they are just producing babies, for some they are just having fun, but what is this mystery surrounding sex?  

From our opening scripture, the master talked about people who were first two separate people, but as a result of marriage (sex), He says they will no more become two separate people, but one flesh. And that is one mystery I will be treating now.   When you have sex with someone, spiritually, something transpired. Spiritually, there was a joining. Both of you were joined together as one. This is why we were sharply warned to flee fornication by God in the Bible. Beyond the sin, there's more to fornication than what you really think.

'What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.' - 1 Corinthians 6 vs 16 {KJV}

You see that? So when you have sex (whether in marriage or in sin), you are actually joined to that person.

IF SEX IS DONE IN MARRIAGE

When sex is done in marriage, the joining of the couples as a result of sex made, causes oneness in mind, in heart, in emotion, in love. That enables the couples to work together.   Note this: When sex is done in marriage, a covenant is established between three (3) people. Now before I go into that, I want you to take a very good look at the shape of the male and female organs, God specially designed the male organ to pierce through the female organ, and when that is done, there is blood shed, the shedding of blood is the seal of the covenant. So I said, when two married folks have sex, a covenant is established between God, the man, and the woman; and this is what qualifies them for Blessings in the marriage because God is involved, because God is a part of the covenant.

IF SEX IS DONE IN SIN
 
When sex is done on the grounds of fornication, the two chaps are joined as one spiritually. Hear clear, Jesus did not say two couples will be one because they had a marriage ceremony, no! He said they are one because the man cleaved (made sex to) unto the woman. So it's the cleaving that brings about the joining not the wedding occasion, and that unveils a principle to us. {Matthew 19 vs 5}

'What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.' - 1 Corinthians 6 vs 16 {KJV}

You see that? So when a man or woman, boy or girl have sex with someone he or she is not married to, by reason of this law operating here, they become one flesh! Hmmm terrible sight!

EFFECT(S) OF FORNICATION

* Demonic Attacks 
When fornication occurs, let's assume it was between a Christian and an unbeliever, when it happens, it therefore means the Christian fellow is joined as one to the unbeliever, hence, Satan can attack the Christian as a matter of ease because as he stricks the unbeliever, automatically the Christian is striked!   This is what makes fornication a deadly disease. Unbelievers are subjects under the devil, when the Christian therefore falls to commit sex with a subject of the devil (unbeliever), the devil deiberately begins to afflict the unbeliever who he has right over, just because of you the Christian, so that you can be hurt! So Satan throws malaria to the unbeliever, and the Christian gets the malaria because they are one! Satan throws lungs pain to the unbeliever, and the Christian gets lungs pain! Human life is nothing to the devil, he is a killer! {John 10 vs 10} If the Christian doesn't rescue himself in time with scriptural steps which I will give you shortly, Satan can throw death at the unbeliever fellow, and the Christian brother or sister gets the death and dies! Then the church begins to wonder and ask questions how it happened! My dear, flee illicit sex!   'Flee fornication.

'Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.' - 1 Corinthians 6 vs 18 {KJV}

COMMITING FORNICATION WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE

This is one point I want to hit hardly. You see, as a result of ignorance, people just go ahead having sex with different people here and there, thinking they are been smart and having fun, but in truth and reality they are actually building up a complicated life for themselves.

Now,with the sex principle of joining Jesus showed to us in the scripture above, let's take a look at this sex chain;   Mr.A + Mrs.A (They fornicate) = Mr.AMrs.A (1Flesh) then, Mr.A (Who is now one with Mrs.A) fornicates with Mrs.B = Mr.AMrs.AMrs.B At the same time, Mrs.A who did not fornicate again, but because she is one flesh with Mr.A who went on to fornicate again with Mrs.B, Mrs.A became Mrs.AMr.AMrs.B!   My goodness! Do you understand what the Spirit is telling you by this chain? Mr.A became one with Mrs.A when they fornicated which is Mr.AMrs.A, when Mr.A went on to fornicate with another lady Mrs.B, he became, Mr.AMrs.AMrs.B, at the same time, Mrs.A who did not fornicate again also increased in joining because that Mr.A she is one with fornicated again, hence Mrs.A became Mrs.A+Mr.A+Mrs.B, and at the same time, Mrs.B who only slept with Mr.A automatically is joined with Mrs.A because Mr.A has slept with her, and also, Mr.A and Mrs.B are automatically joined with everybody Mrs.B has ever fornicated with. Can you see the network? This is why the Bible strictly warned us with a loud voice to flee fornication. And I can tell you, if these people don't unjoin themselves by the principle I will share below, the more fornication any party makes adds up to the joining of the whole fellows on the chain. And this is how people add up complication to their live. Just imagine Mr.A was born again, Mrs.A was born again, Mrs.B was an unbeliever, as a result of the Mutual Joining of all of them because of sex sin, if Satan afflicts Mrs.B with death, it will catch up with Both Mr.A, Mrs.A and the rest on the chain! This is another reason why we loose brethren in church! This is another reason why certain brethren seem to have incurable sicknesses and diseases. Also note that by this chain network, one can also partake of the curses and ancestral problems of any party who is a victim on that chain! Just because of a Five (5) minutes pleasure? Nah.

HOW CAN I DETACH/UNJOIN MYSELF FROM THE ONENESS SEX ESTABLISHES?

For married couples, divorce won't do that for you. If you divorce your wife for another woman, you are still one flesh with your wife. Hence if you lie with the new wife, you make her an adulteress, hence she becomes joined to the man and his former wife. Under that network, Satan can strike legally, and all of them will partake of the strike equally. This makes me laugh. This is same for a woman that divorces her husband.

Mark 10:11   And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.

Mark 10:12   And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
{KING JAMES VERSION}

This is it. The only time when a woman or a man is detached, is when either couples die. 

'The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.' - 1 Corinthians 7 vs 39 {KJV}

You see that? What must you do to have yourself unjoined?

POUR OUT YOURSELF BEFORE THE LORD

'if we admit our sins—make a clean breast of them—he won’t let us down; he’ll be true to himself. He’ll forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing.' - 1 John 1 vs 9 {THE MESSAGE BIBLE}

This goes beyond a mere prayer of forgiveness, but a pouring out of the soul before the Lord day and night. At this point, the fellow is flat before the Lord in tears, pains and godly sorrows. I can tell you from personal experience, that this goes beyond a day, sometimes, it takes weeks, sometimes, months for such fellow to feel the presence of the Holy-Spirit again, yes.

Hear this and hear it clear, during the course of fornication, the Holy-Spirit left that Christian. Think, how could the Holy-Spirit claim a body that is been defiled at that very moment? God forbid! Didn't you hear what He is called? Holy-Spirit? That is why you felt empty after that action because He was not there, you felt useless, you felt hatred in your heart because He was absent. This is why we lie down flat before the Lord with a broken heart, yearning for the return of the Holy-Spirit. When the Holy Spirit comes back into you, then it means you are washed, it means mercy has been poured out on you, it means you are clean! Because anyone whom the Holy-Spirit is pleased to dwell in, is clean! The Holy-Spirit begins to comfort you. The Apostle Paul said something in this Regard;

1 Corinthians 5 The Message (MSG)
The Mystery of Sex

'1-2 I also received a report of scandalous sex within your church family, a kind that wouldn’t be tolerated even outside the church: One of your men is sleeping with his stepmother. And you’re so above it all that it doesn’t even faze you! Shouldn’t this break your hearts? Shouldn’t it bring you to your knees in tears? Shouldn’t this person and his conduct be confronted and dealt with?

3-5 I’ll tell you what I would do. Even though I’m not there in person, consider me right there with you, because I can fully see what’s going on. I’m telling you that this is wrong. You must not simply look the other way and hope it goes away on its own. Bring it out in the open and deal with it in the authority of Jesus our Master. Assemble the community—I’ll be present in spirit with you and our Master Jesus will be present in power. Hold this man’s conduct up to public scrutiny. Let him defend it if he can! But if he can’t, then out with him! It will be totally devastating to him, of course, and embarrassing to you. But better devastation and embarrassment than damnation. You want him on his feet and forgiven before the Master on the Day of Judgment.'
{THE MESSAGE BIBLE}

Did you see what Paul the Apostle said in the first part of the scripture? He said 'Shouldn’t this break your hearts? Shouldn’t it bring you to your knees in tears?' And that is just it.

WHAT WILL THE LORD DO WHEN HE SEES MY SORROWS AND SUPPLICATIONS?

Let's see what the Lord himself will do;

'if we admit our sins—make a clean breast of them—he won’t let us down; he’ll be true to himself. He’ll forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing.' - 1 John 1 vs 9 {THE MESSAGE BIBLE}

From the scripture, he says the Lord will forgive us our sins, and purge us of all wrongdoing. Note, to purge means to completely evacuate something out from something. So Jesus is gonna totally evacuate the sin and it's effects (the joining of you and the other fellow) from you, and you will be free. Then at this point, you'll begin to feel God again as before, then with time, you'll regain your flow, and your heart will totally be peaceful! Hallelujah. Mhen, sin is not sweet at all! Shit!

Remember, when God forgives sin, so goes the effect(s) of that sin.

My dear, are you married? Enjoy the gift of sex. Yes! Are you unmarried? Flee the killer disease 'fornication'. There are cases when Satan strikes a Christian with death quickly before he makes reconciliation with the Lord. The Bible says flee fornication, it did not say avoid it, it says flee it! {1 Corinthians 6 vs 18}

He that has ears to hear has heard already!

Watch out for my next article where I will be talking about living above the thoughts of past actions.

God Bless You.
- Pastor Jenning Uweye